Beyond eroticism, we are human beings that need emotional balance. Everything revolves around emotions. There is a big difference between “having sex” and “making love”. We survive by sex, but we develop by love.
I am Hellen – the voice of the bedroom stories you will read on this site. There are stories about couple love, about the joy of living with the partner experiences of life and the limits of the erotic.
I’ve been married to Alex for many years, and we’ve got more kids together. We know each other from adolescence, and we like to believe that the relationship that we have tied together so far is solid and cheerful, comfortable and secure, based on years of communication, love and mutual appreciation.
We treat eroticism and fantasies in the bedroom as healthy and beneficial tools to couple life. We do not consider sex as a food needed for survival. We live with emotion to feed our mind / spirit. And in our case, it seems that this is the secret to keep the flame of love on fire.
Before any couple’s fantasy, communication is mandatory. And trust. And safety. We built our story just on these pillars.
Making love is not something you do to someone-it’s something you share. Love Making between men and women should be mutually pleasurable. Both women and men should be fully and completely satisfied. (JF Kelly – A Woman’s Pleasure)